Monday, February 27, 2012

Growth Spurt

This past weekend Charlie had a pretty big growth spurt. Last summer he got a bike, but never did anything with it (very much frustrating his mom and dad). He would climb up and try to pedal for a minute and then promptly declare that he was done. So, the bike went into the attic space for a long winter's nap.

In the middle of last week Charlie declared out of nowhere, "I want to ride my bike." I promptly told him, "Okay, we'll get it out and go for ride." I was really in no hury to climb back into the attic above the garage and get the bike down for a minute's "ride", so the bike stayed put until this weekend when Charlie persisted in his desire.

During this weekend's first effort, Charlie got on his bike and tried to pedal. He did this for longer than just one minute, which I thought was a big step forward just by itself. I started to just push him around so that he could get the hang of steering. He did this for about another minute before declaring that he was done. I was prepared to be content with that, so we started to just goof around. I rode Charlie's bike myself and even let him push me around. There is no video of that (luckily), but our neighbor Dave told me he watched from his living room.

A few hours later, Charlie told me he wanted to go again. This time, out of nowhere, Charlie started pedalling by himself, I was only helping him get started periodically. He wasn't great at steering, but it didn't take long before he could navigate around the cul-de-sac on the sidewalk and make corrections in his trajectory. By Sunday afternoon, he was a pro going around our cul-de-sac and up the block around the next cul-de-sac before heading home. Watch the videos below and see what you think. Dad's thinking it will be a fun summer taking bike rides with Charlie leading the way and Daniel and Ana in the trailer.

Extra Bonus: Daniel was along for the ride and he is getting very vocal, enjoy his side commentary about juice, getting down and saying "Hi!".



















Thursday, February 23, 2012

Winter School Pictures

Oh wow! Everyone had seriously cute school photos this time around! Primrose brings in a photographer called lilAngels to do these fun pics. The multiplier of 3 kids with 3 great poses each at $29.95 a sheet will break us!
I think I might order Charlie pose 2, Daniel and Ana pose 3. We need to get a family picture some time soon too. Click on the pictures to see them larger in a new window.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Young Love

Ana used to be the youngest in the infant room, but not any more! The director's grandson, Owen, just started and he is about a week younger than Ana. Aren't the so cute on the play-mat together?! Owen and Ana will probably move through the Primrose classrooms together just like Charlie, Tessa and Chloe did over at Bearcreek. I wonder who is going to roll over first?


the text reads:

Hi Mom,

I’m sorry I didn’t tell you sooner (like Monday when it happened) but it’s because I know you are going to try to talk me out of it. I’m sorry, but I can’t help it…I’m in love!

I know you’ll say I am too young, but you don’t choose when you fall in love, you just know it when you get there!

I know you think that I should take things slow, but when you hold hands with the one you love, your heart races!

I understand your reservations, but don’t worry! There hasn’t been a proposal YET (because we can’t talk). For now, we’re just enjoying each other’s company (and our shared love of comfy onsie sleepers). If we both have the same goals down the line (ie: sitting up, rolling over etc.) and are going the same direction in the future (ie: the YT room in a year or so), then we’ll see where we are and how serious our relationship is at that time! Right now, we’re just having fun! Isn’t love grand?

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Orange Hair

I love the Happy gram emails from Primrose. The one above came while I was working in Richmond. It is so nice to get pictures of your kiddos throughout the day. I can tell he is having a great time!
The text reads:

Good Morning Mom and Dad,

I know that recently Charlie has been fascinated with garbage trucks and dad’s occupation as NOT a garbage truck driver.

Well, I have been fascinated with the idea of having long hair. Not just the length, but the color, too! I mean, how many 1 ½ year old boys (or girls) do you know that have silky, shoulder length orange hair? Talk about a statement! I know it would be a big commitment, with all of upkeep…the brushing, shampooing and conditioning (especially if it’s true that mayo helps your hair look shiny…ewwww!). And yes, I’m sure people might do a double take, but as soon as they see how cool I look head banging & hair flipping to my favorite song or putting it up into the punk spike mohawk, they’ll be heading straight to Sally’s beauty supply for hair extensions.

If I do go for it, The big question will be…Bangs or no bangs?

Love, Daniel

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Snow!

14" and it is still coming down. The boys had fun "helping" dad shovel.:


Thursday, February 2, 2012

Happy Birthday Chubby



I' can't believe it's been 9 years! I sure am glad to have Chubby and Woody as office mates. They both keep me company while I work from home. I wonder if Child's bakery does a doggy cake? Happy birthday pup!

Chemo Update: Maintenance & Increased Meds

We are currently in Cycle 6 of Maintenance, out of 11 or 12 (but I’ll get into that more later on). Just within this cycle, Charlie has had two adjustments in the dosages of his medications. During the first month of Cycle 6 the dosage of his daily 6MP medication was increased 25%. This change was based on Charlie’s increased Body Surface Area (BSA). He is, after all, a growing boy. For the second month of Cycle 6, Charlie’s methotrexate and steroid dosages were increased based on elevated ANC levels. The plan calls for Charlie’s ANC to stay between 750 and 1500 and if his counts are high for 3 month in a row, his medications are adjusted to get him within that range. He has done better than we expected with the increased dosages, though we have noticed some changes. He tends to get grumpier a little sooner in his steroid cycle and his bad mood sticks around a little longer, but we still get two good weeks out of every four typically.

Tuesday was the start of the 3rd month of Cycle 6 and his ANC was 722, which means the increased dosages are doing their job and keeping him closer to the appropriate range. While it is lower than the desirable 750, they don’t readjust medications unless he gets below 500. However, for us, the lower ANC means increased germ awareness and more diligent hygiene, especially with Daniel and Ana.

Charlie’s accesses continue to be a challenge though he is a lot better than he used to be. I can get him to settle down and sit still eventually, but it usually takes a couple of iterations, restarting the whole process after having to take him out of the room to calm him down. He does finally get the job done but it is exhausting. After his access on Tuesday Charlie fell asleep in my lap. That is something he hasn’t done in a long time.

The monotony that is this Maintenance phase has got me pondering what life is going to be like after Charlie completes his chemo. I expect I will have the nagging feeling that I am forgetting something after I don’t have to fix up his nightly chemo-cocktails before bed. How long will that take to go away? How will Charlie react when he doesn’t have to wake up to take said cocktails? I am also very curious to see how much different his disposition is going to be after the medications get out of his system. Sally said she is always surprised to hear the comments parents make after their kids finish up Maintenance. For the doctors and nurses, the kids in Maintenance are pretty normal, happy-go-lucky kids compared to all the other kids they see. But she says the parents always comment on much easier it is to be around their post-Maintenance kids and what a joy it is to “have them back”. We are very much looking forward to that moment.

Apart from the lack of daily medications, post-Maintenance life will be a pretty familiar routine. Charlie will still have his monthly visits for while. They will gradually reduce down to quarterly, semi-annual and finally annual visits until he is 18 or 21 or something like that. During Tuesday’s appointment, I wanted to find out how many more cycles Charlie has to complete in Maintenance. What I learned was that Charlie’s end date will be exactly 3 years to the day that he started Interim Maintenance, which was on June 9th, 2010. No matter where we are in his last cycle, if all goes as planned Charlie will end Maintenance on June 9th, 2013.

While it is probably a little too early to start a count-down right now, you should probably expect to see another ticker in the upper left hand corner of this blog on June 9th, 2012, 128 days from now. Not that I’m counting or anything . . .


June 9th 2013 here I come!